FAQs

 

What is counseling? Top

Counseling is a process in which regular discussions and sharing of thoughts, fears and feelings with a trained counselor can help you to understand and resolve what is troubling you whether it comes from circumstances, other people, or yourself. It can therefore assist you to make decisions or changes which could enable you to lead your life more fully.

The basis of all counseling is objective and supportive listening and respect for the client as an individual. Writing or talking about things previously pushed aside by the pressures of everyday life can be a difficult process – but the opportunity to explore your feelings in a private, confidential, and non-judgmental atmosphere can be a relief in itself. Through interacting with a counselor a person is helped to cope more effectively with everyday life.

Counseling provides an opportunity to gain new perspectives and can encourage progress towards a sense of greater well-being.

   
Who needs counseling? Top
Any "normal" person who is facing a difficult situation that he or she has not been able to resolve alone. In other words everyone needs counseling at some time or another. It's not a matter of being "weak" but just sensibly recognizing when you could do with a little help.
   
Why do I need a counselor? Top
Very often friends and family are not easily accessible, especially if you've moved away from the place in which you grew up. Even when they are available, friends or family may not be able to help or they may be part of the problem themselves. Or you may not want them to know about the problem. A counselor is a professional, neutral and objective and is trained to understand and help.
   
For what issues can I get help? Top

Some of the issues for which people frequently seek help are:

  • Health Issues: skin problems, hair problems, aches and pains, handicap, weight problem, allergies etc.
  • Psychological: Lack of confidence, anger management, bereavement, anxiety, loneliness and depression, shyness, sexual concerns, overcoming habits (smoking, alcohol, and drugs), adjustment problems, traumatic past experiences, personality development etc.
  • Relationship: Marriage (frequent conflicts, unmet expectations, in-law concerns, infidelity, sexual difficulties), and pre-marital issues, relationships with friends of same and opposite sex, break-up of romantic relationships, family concerns, lack of assertiveness etc.
  • Reproductive Issues: body image, menstruation, sexual thoughts, wet dreams, family planning, premature ejaculation, infertility, virginity, irregular bleeding, miscarriages, acne problem etc. 
  • Work: Relationship with boss and colleagues, lack of motivation and concentration, career growth and performance concerns, work-life balance, stress, harassment, time management, fear of speaking in meetings, handling shift work etc.
  • Parenting: Deciding to have a baby, child care, discipline, quality time, school (academic performance, bullying, relationship with friends & teachers), handling teenagers etc.
  • Career Guidance: Information regarding different career options, job seeking, subject selection, professional rivalry, examination fear and stress, failure etc.
   
How will counseling help me? Top
As you describe your problem, the very act of expressing your feelings to a person who is not judging you will be helpful. The counselor will then help you to understand yourself and the problem more fully. Suggestions and various options open to you will be given. In some situations a single session will be sufficient but in many cases you may require an ongoing sessions. The entire process will help you to help yourself more effectively.
   
Are the counselors qualified? Top
Counseling (whether online, telephonic or face-to-face) will be provided by one of the qualified, trained counselors (there are staff of clinical psychologists and career counselors). This is very important because the wrong kind of help or advice could leave you worse off! When required you may be directed to a specialist in the appropriate field.
   
Will I have the same counselor each time? Top
Once you have used our counseling service, your future data will be automatically directed to the same counselor, who has access to all your previous information and will therefore understand you well.
   
What are the advantages of telephonic Counseling? Top

Going to a counselor can be difficult. You may be embarrassed about a sensitive issue or concerned about what other people will think. Timings may be inconvenient and distances prohibitive. You may not be really sure if you need to see a counselor or if counseling will be helpful at all.

Online counseling gives you privacy and anonymity (you don't even have to give your real name while giving basic profile). It is often much easier to share sensitive personal issues through this service. Many of our clients share with us issues that they have never spoken about before.

It is convenient and easily accessible from the comfort of your own desk at home or office. Offers increased access to services from rural and remote locations.

Time efficiency: You don't need to take time off work or travel anywhere. Since everything is calling, you can choose to re-call as often as you like. You have the option of taking you need to think things through so you can say exactly what you mean, or to spontaneously say whatever comes to your mind.

There may, however, be situations when your counselor feels that you would make better progress with face-to-face counseling. If so this will be recommended.

   
Do I have to give a lot of personal information? Top
We do not require you to give any details about your designation or any other company details. However it does help if you give the counselor as much details about the relevant problem situation as possible. The more relevant information you provide, the more applicable the answer will be. If you choose not to reveal details, we will still attempt to help you, but you may find the replies less adequate. This information will not be used for any other purpose, nor will it be revealed to anyone else.
   
Is the counseling really confidential? Top
Confidentiality and trust is the very basis of professional counseling. The Hope assures you that all information given will be kept completely confidential.
(The only exception to this is in case of suicide or homicide - as per worldwide counseling ethics. In case of suicidal or homicidal risk we will have to break confidentiality by informing a responsible person in your family and/or your organization.)